#blogchallenge: Fortune Cookie #23


by Lillian Csernica on May 23, 2018

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Today’s fortune says:

A single conversation with a wise man is worth ten years of study.

 

Here are the Top Five Pieces of Advice I’ve received thus far:

“Keep the pen moving.” Andy Couturier, top notch writing teacher.

“Remember, it’s not about you.” My mental health pros explaining what motivates other people’s hurtful behaviors, especially Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Oy!

“Why is this happening NOW?” Darrell Schweitzer on the problem that starts a story.

“To combat depression, count your blessings every night by keeping a daily list in a journal, notebook, etc.” I can’t remember which of my therapists first suggested this idea. It’s advice I pass along frequently when I meet someone else struggling with depression.

“If your pain is getting in the way of your writing, maybe you need to make room in your writing for your pain.” The LCSW who was my therapist for the longest stretch, which included the worst disasters of my benighted life.

Yes, I have Major Depressive Disorder. Yes, I’ve been writing ever since I could hold a crayon. And yes, I’ve spent most of my life in cognitive behavioral therapy, starting at age 11 when my parents divorced and starting again in a big way when I was 28. I’m now 52, and frankly, there’s no end in sight.

So I follow Stephen King’s advice. “Read, read, read. Write, write, write.” Because, really, stories are what make life worth living.

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3 Comments

Filed under Blog challenges, creativity, Depression, Family, Fiction, historical fiction, Lillian Csernica, therapy, Writing

3 responses to “#blogchallenge: Fortune Cookie #23

  1. These are excellent pieces of advice. Kudos to you for sticking with therapy, and with the writing… I can only try to imagine what it must be like to battle something like what you deal with daily, but I know it must be HARD—which makes me admire you all the more.

    Thanks for sharing this.
    Guilie @ Life In Dogs

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  2. I think Stephen King knows a thing or two about depression his own self. In any case, yes – read, read, read, write, write, write!

    Like

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