Mom’s Official Day Off

by Lillian Csernica on May 9, 2015

Here in the United States, tomorrow is Mother’s Day.  This is the day on which we recognize all the love, the effort, and the sacrifices mothers provide for their children.  The traditional observance is taking Mom out to brunch or perhaps dinner, so she doesn’t have to cook or clean up afterward.

Mothers deserve more than one day of official recognition.  We deserve two weeks’ paid vacation with full benefits and room service.  Then maybe somebody would notice how many people it takes to do all of the work just one of us accomplishes on a daily basis.

When John was little, he was a “runner.”  He got out the front door one day and took off up the stairs to street level.  I went after him, slipped on one of the steps, and tore my right calf muscle.  I was laid up for about two weeks, spending the first week off my feet entirely.  My mother came over to help.  My mother-in-law flew in from New Jersey to help.  I think the final total was five people coming on board.  While my leg put me in a whole new world of pain, I must admit I rather enjoyed the validation of my nearest and dearest finding out just how much I really did do around the house.

I do not recommend this method of getting people’s attention.

So to all the mothers out there, birth, adopted, foster, grand-, god-, and fairy godmothers as well, I salute you and all that you do for the people you love.


Filed under Family, Goals, housework, mother

10 responses to “Mom’s Official Day Off

  1. When my mum died, my world toppled outside down… and it hasn’t settled yet.
    I miss you a lot, mum.

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  2. Happy day off. Your story of your fall reminds me of one of mine. My husband and I both do the same job (performing storytellers) and whenever we had to go anywhere for work when our guy was younger, child care peeps came with. Our first extremely HUGE festival weekend required not one caregiver, not two, but a total of 5. Yes 5. That’s what I did every day whether I was working, not working, and in between etc. 5. His different ages required different numbers, that fest was at a particularly intense time in the kid’s life. Thanks for sharing your story.. ENJOY A WELL DESERVED DAY OF MOM-APPRECIATION! – Jeri from

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  3. So nice to have so many people to rush in when you needed them the most. They obviously appreciate all you do for them . Happy mothers day. We had ours in March…I cooked! Jimmy says everyday is mothers day..ha. The cheek of him :p

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  4. Happy mothers day, Love you mom.


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